Steps
- Say it. When you say the word ,"I Luv U", they should carry with them the desire to show sumone tat u luv them, not what you simply want to feel. When u say it, make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.
- Empathize. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are. Realize how they could also love you back just as well.
- Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to b themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.
- Expect nothing in return. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving luv .Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.
- Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have.Think how lucky u are to have someone to love. Don't make an idol of the person you love. This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing them.
- Never stop loving. Even if you have been hurt before you should not stop giving love.
Huhu..now,i wud lyke to share wit u guys the true meaning of luv..
hehehe...enjoy reading :-)
- It does not make you a bad person to desire someone else's love, even if they do not love you. However, to truly love someone, you must let them to feel free. It is selfish to blame them for your feelings.
- There are many types of love, for example: a mother-son love is different from a best friend's love, which is different from a romantic love. Don't be ashamed to tell anyone that you love your friends as much as you love anyone else in your life.
- You have to find sumone that will suit you, someone you feel comfortable with - not just someone to make love to.
Consider some tips about what people in love do..
I Think,hurmmm
- People in love are sensitive to each other's needs, and endeavour to meet them even when they do not feel like doing it.
- Men and women may be equal in value but different by nature. People who truly are in love give their mates "space" to develop their potential and find their fulfillment in life.
- Love does not brag. People who are truly in love refrain from rehearsing their good traits just to show off. Bragging in a relationship often is really defensiveness.
- People who are truly in love do not insist that their way is best and demand that their mates give in to them.
- People who are truly in love are considerate of each other's feelings and courteous in their actions toward one another. Sadly,sarcasm is a way of life for some couples. They ridicule each other, belittle each other and trade jibes with a fury. They may say it is all in fun, but it leaves wounds that will someday become festering sores.
- People who are truly in love look out for their mate's best interests as much as their own. Those in love should be concerned not only about their own individual interests, but about the interests of the other as well.
- People who are truly in love CONTROL THEIR ANGER when the other displeases them. We are all human, and all humans feel anger periodically, but we only express our anger in destructive ways when we are counting on someone else to meet our needs.
- People who truly love each other do not take pleasure in their mate's disappointments or failures.
- People who truly love each other treat their mates with absolute trust. If you look for trouble you will find it every time.
- People who truly love each other do not allow their problems to rob them of their happiness.
- Remember there is no failure in love, because once you tell somebody whom u luv, that you love him/her, then u have already succeeded in love.
Best of Luck in ur Relationship :-)...


hope I can find my true love.. :)
ReplyDeleteu dun hv 2...
ReplyDeleteits juz infront of u..
where2?
ReplyDeletethe guy in tis pic :-)
ReplyDeletewho is he? may I knw him?
ReplyDelete;)
hurrmmmm...
ReplyDeleteu wanna know him??
i think is a bad idea...cuz he is "BAD"
haha, i can handle "bad" guys..
ReplyDelete*ye2 je
hahaha...
ReplyDeleteden...tis is his number...
014-235545*...
hahaha
ReplyDeleteowkay..
i'll ring him later..
;p
dun 4get...
ReplyDeletebut ..juz 2 remind...he is very2 busy
woohhh..bz duin wat?
ReplyDeletebeing a luv doc?
HAHAHA
busy..treating his patient:-)
ReplyDeletethe one and only patient
uh, how's dat person doin?
ReplyDeletethat person is a she or he?
hurm..:)
huhu...
ReplyDeleteshe is duin fine...
i guess dr.sab's posyen works perfectly
let me guess..luv potion is it?
ReplyDelete:-D
hehe...
ReplyDeleteu got it totally rite...
u wan sum of the potion??
haha,,cute tips hah??
ReplyDeletesejak ble plak kau jdi perunding cinta ni??
haha...anyway gu lark la..
let me answer from his behalf,since he's stuck in love with my lizbud.hahah..;-)
ReplyDeletehahaha.... thenx azmi :-)
ReplyDeleteto dela..: cbuk jew.. :P
hahaha..this is so cute! <3
ReplyDeleteI love you, Sabran..then and now and forever!